Workbook
You Don't Have to Earn Your Rest
A practical workbook for exhaustion, guilt and the pressure to keep doing more
A$2937 pages, fillable PDF
What it is for
You sit down, and your mind starts listing what remains unfinished. For the person others rely on. Make the load visible. Notice the limit sooner. Change one demand. Rest before you have earned it.
Inside
- The invisible load, made visible
- Early, later and late signs of overload
- The loop that keeps you pushing
- Remove, reduce, share, renegotiate
- A humane standard for the day, and a two-week plan
- A worked example on every exercise
You might be here if
- You sit down and your mind starts listing what remains unfinished.
- You are the person others rely on to remember, organise and follow through.
- Your body is tired, yet stopping feels uncomfortable.
- You would like someone to notice the effort without you having to explain it.
The worked example
Dani, 42, works four days a week, has two children at primary school, and is the person her mother rings first. She keeps the family calendar in her head. When she sat down last Sunday, she lasted four minutes before getting up to sort the school bags. Nobody had asked her to.
From the pages
What am I tired of carrying?
Is this rule possible to follow without harm or exhaustion? Would I apply it to someone I care about?
Does this need doing at all?
What can wait without significant harm?
How it works
Payment is handled by Gumroad. The PDF arrives by email straight after checkout and stays in your Gumroad library. Open it in Adobe Acrobat Reader (free), Apple Preview or the Files app on iPhone and iPad; your answers save inside the file.
A support structure, not a replacement
This workbook offers education and guided reflection for adults. It does not diagnose a condition or replace counselling, psychological treatment or medical care. If anything it raises is more than you can hold alone, bring the pages to a counsellor or therapist. Sessions are here.
Refunds
Because the file is delivered instantly, purchases cannot be returned or exchanged. If a file will not open or the fields will not fill, email coach@stabilisecoaching.com and it will be sorted, usually the same day.
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A$29, 37-page fillable PDF. Instant download through Gumroad.